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8th July, 2007

ME& London Pride 07

Well last week was London Pride 07, or due to the weather it could have been mistaken for the gay Glastonbury. Despite the rain thousands lined the route of the newly branded ‘London Pride 35th Anniversary celebration’ route along Oxford Street and down Regent Street.

There we around 40 floats and many people walking with their various splinter gay group flags. Some tried to have carnival attitude to the march and other wanted to make political statements.

The press notice publicising the march stated that pride had returned to its original format and had a political undertone like the first march in 1972. Over the last decade pride had changed into the then branded ‘Gay Mardi Gras’ and was less about gay and lesbian people coming together to show solidarity and more about going to a party after the march, taking drugs and spending the entire day in one of the many dance tents with pounding drum beats ringing in your ears.

It is strange that the organisers wanted to return to the original format as in the last ten years under a Labour government many of the rights that we protested for have been achieved; civil partnerships, lower age of consent, revoking clause 28 and tougher legislation to help report and convict hate crimes and discrimination as well as support groups to help victims . Most of the public services now promote themselves as gay friendly employers and pride themselves on having gay and lesbian support networks.

Even the police who were once seen as an oppressive force now work with the gay and lesbian community groups to help better advice policy and encourage the reporting of hate crime.

So what exactly do we need a march for, let alone a whole day to celebrate being gay? Let’s think about it in real terms, you don’t get ginger people (of which I’m sure they out number gays) demanding a political rally followed by music and cabaret in Trafalgar and Leicester squares.

Don’t get me wrong I’m not a anti-gay-gay but my gay life journy has taken me through not being able to have consensual sex with another man in the privacy of my home because I was under 21(many years ago), I’ve lived through the Conservative party bringing in clause 28 and the propaganda that pointed the finger at gay’s for spreading Aids.

The young gays of today, 18 – 28yrs old, have never had to deal with these issues, in fact they have never had it so good, what political message would they possible want to communicate? Free recreational drugs and no door charge at clubs! Who knows?

As a gay man living in a major city, I am seen as an equal, no better or worse than anyone else in the street. Yes there is still ignorance and bigotry, but straight people encourage this in everyday life like all of us.

Yes we may have a long way to go until this is stamped out but as long as there are people that are insecure about them selves, jealous or practice a different religion you will always have bigotry and hatred and this will be directed at anyone, be them straight, gay, Christian, Catholic, Muslim, black, white, ginger, fat or any other physical defect that the aggressor decides is your weak spot.

Despite my views I did enjoy the sense of solidarity that London Pride 07 achieved. It was heart warming to see gay people stepping away from their daily lives to come together to make a visible statement. It was even nicer to see that despite the recent terrorist attacks, the general public doing their weekend shopping and tourist visiting our city came together and joined in our gay celebration.

To read more please go to my blog: http://poobaba-backfromthebrink.blogspot.com/

4th May, 2007

Underwater Love

I used to think it'd be pretty sweet to be a fish. I mean they just swim around all day looking for food, they cant remember for shit, and don't have to suffer corporate bullshit or American Politics. I used to think that the only downside to being a fish is that they dont have sex, instead they choose to spunk over a pile of eggs on the river/seabed (what ever floats their boat) and pray to the Almighty Nemo for weak currents, but I guess who needs a vagina when you can cut out the middle man.

What I didn't take into account was the prospect of being gang banged to death by thousands of rampant toads in a bizarre toad on carp mass orgy, but lets face it who does. This is seriously the best news story I have ever read, god bless the tabloids.

Killer sex toads in mating frenzy

SEX-CRAZED toads killed prime carp worth £20,000 at a fishing lake — by dragging them down into an underwater ORGY.
The prized fish, weighing up to 8lbs, suffocated when amorous toads in a mating frenzy jumped on them as they basked in the shallows. Each carp was attacked by up to a DOZEN randy amphibians mistaking them for lady toads. And more fish including roach, rudd and bream were killed by pollution from the rotting carcasses lying on the bottom of the lake.
Mike Heelis, 49, who manages Wykeham Lakes, near Pickering, North Yorks, said:“It was a horrendous sight. “From a distance it looked like the fish had some sort of fungus on their heads. Then I realised they had these toads clamped to their heads. “Toads have always come to our lakes to do what they do naturally — but this year there were thousands of them, jumping on anything that moved. * “The creatures were covering their gills and mouths. They just sank to the bottom and died.
Source: The Sun
Thats HOT.

Poster for this year's festivalThe Pink Loerie Carnival is currently the biggest gay festival held on the African continent. What started as a small party held over a weekend a couple of years ago, has now evolved into a five-day long, international, fully fledged festival.

 The Loerie (as it is affectionately known by the locals), is held in my home town of Knysna on the South-West coast of South Africa. This small town literally bursts at the seams during the festival, as hundreds upon thousands of like-minded people congregate here to throw all their cares to the wind and dance the nights and days away.

 Named after the Knysna Loerie, a beautiful bright green bird with brilliant red plumage on the underside of its wings and which is only found in the forests surrounding our town, the Pink Loerie Carnival is also extremely straight-friendly. In fact, last year's statistics showed that nearly 25 % of visitors to Knysna during that weekend were straight (yes, sometimes we take a poll).

It is a weekend where everybody gets along. People from all over the world come to our little town to shake their sugar alongside the locals. There is a multitude of shows, concerts, parties, live music and of course, don't forget the parade down Main Street with the street party afterwards!

 All in all, it's five days of carefree fun - and it starts tonight...

Be assured that I will report back next week (as soon as I have recovered from five days' worth of dancing and pinting), with pics and all. I advise you all to start making travel arrangements for next year's festival - it is an experience not to be missed. Just beware - if you've come once, you'll only want to come again (mind the double entendre there).

Check out these links, the first is the official Pink Loerie website and the second will give you more of an idea of the beautiful place that is Knysna.

http://www.pinkloerie.com/

http://www.paradisefound.co.za/knysna_images/index.html

The Vatican's second-highest ranking doctrinal official on Monday forcefully branded homosexual marriage an evil and denounced abortion and euthanasia as forms of "terrorism with a human face."

 Read the full story here.

5th April, 2007

safe sex??

Creepy Safe Sex

Some creepy Safe-Sex posters in France

 

24th March, 2007

Abercrombie

Abercrombie and Fitch has opened in Saville Row! This is the brands first store outside of North America and I have a feeling it is going to go down well.

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Since the gays are on unfamiliar turf when it comes to the locker room (supposedly).

2nd March, 2007

Naked! Harry Potter!

Well.. a picture is worth a thousand words no?

NAked Harry

Its on again, the 29th Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras hits Sydney next Saturday evening. Happy Mardi Gras everyone...............

The Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras, is the world's largest gay and lesbian festival and Australia's largest tourist event with one million people, ie 25% of Sydney's population, lining the two mile long parade route.

It is often said that the largely gay suburb of Darlinghurst, which hosts the parade, is never straighter the evening of Mardi Gras as Sydney's straight community revels with its gay and lesbian friends. This celebration of everything gay and lesbian literally stops Sydney in its tracks, but it wasn't always that way.............

It began on June 24, 1978 as a protest march and commemoration of the Stonewall Riots. Although the organisers had obtained permission, this was revoked, and the march was broken up by the police. Many of the marchers were arrested. Although most charges were eventually dropped, the Sydney Morning Herald published the names of those arrested in full, leading to many people being outed to their friends and places of employment, and many of those arrested lost their jobs as homosexuality was a crime in New South Wales until 1982.

The event was held again in 1979, with the name changed to the "Sydney Gay Mardi Gras". In 1980 the first post-parade dance party was introduced, and in 1981 the parade was shifted to February. An increasingly large number of people not only participated in the event, but larger numbers of the wider community turned out to watch the parade. In 1988 the parade was renamed the "Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras".

The parade, whilst featuring many in the gay community with a penchant for exotic costumes and dance music, has always retained a political edge, with often witty visual commentary on their political opponents featuring in the floats. As homosexuality became more and more accepted in the wider community, more gay representatives of community groups and organisations have taken part in the parade, including the police force. The parade features a number of costumed characters that return for many successive years. Dykes on Bikes and Miss New Zealand are perfect examples of regular crowd favourites.

http://www.mardigras.org.au/

23rd February, 2007

Gambling Your Sexuality

Whilst advertising for gambling addicts to join a research project, researchers at the University of Minnesota and Yale were astonished to find that 22 of the 105 men that approached them were gay or bisexual.

Reseachers now believe that gays may need more intensive or specialised treatment for their addiction than heterosexuals.

16th February, 2007

Token office gay boy

Interpersonal relationships with work collegues is its own special dynamic. These are people a lot of times don’t like and wouldn’t choose to spen time with, yet you are forced to a third of your day with them. Obviously this isn’t everyone at work but the vast majority. If you don’t think this is the case it’s because you have fooled yourself into thinking that everyone is ‘okay’ to chat with as a form of survival.

The problem in these random water cooler conversations is the amount of crap one has to swallow just to keep things pleasant. After not-too long on the job you’ll know that Janet is a racist, Michael is unashamedly chauvinistic, Todd is the religious one, Greg talks about plants too much, Anna is having problems acknowledging her 50+ age group, Colm is an arrogant twat and quite possible an alcoholic, Samantha is a gossip, etc, etc, but only one will not be so clear to you, at least not at first, and that is the homophobic. It’ll take some time to flush him or her out.

If you are luck enough never to find out who it is, or perhaps lucky enough to work in an office where there is no outright gay-hater, what you will have to suffer, and I guarantee this, is the quite possibly just as bad gay curiosity—the people who, after a few weeks or months suddenly feel free to ask you or tell you completely uninteresting and inappropriate stories. This phenomenon catches like wild fire and as soon as someone breaks the ice everyone jumps in on the action.

The heteros love this moment because they see themselves suddenly quite modern because they have a queer as a ‘friend’ and even more contemporary with their mob like courage as they begin asking all the things they always wanted to know but were afraid to ask. The questions they ask and the stories they tell are always extremely telling of a persons personality and assumptions, but the person never realises this as they are so caught up in the excitement of having made friends with a homo.

The fact is that while the superficial but very telling conversations one has with colleagues in small groups while whiling time are usually kept to a discretion even if it be to a minimum depending on who is involved in the conversation or walking near. We on the other hand have to support the onslaught of everyone and no one is discreet, everyone assumes that they can talk the most obscene nonsense thusly assuming that the gay they are talking to is as obscene.

I’ve been told about the time when two men were ‘buggering’ each on their sofa with the front blind open, I’ve been asked if it’s true that gay men fuck each other regardless of sexual attraction, I’ve been asked if my preferred position is as a top or bottom, I’ve been asked when the last time I had an HIV test was, I’ve been asked by a forty-year-old little bitter woman if I had ‘fucked’ the man I had been so excited about going on a date with the day before. It has been assumed that me and my boyfriend have an open relationship. It has been assumed that no gay relationship can last longer than the dog like sexual attraction.

Of course below these comments and heard whispered in conversations that you will never be a part of is a striking and still raw homophobia, a painful poison working it’s way out of a society.

I truly truly am appalled but this amazingly stupid and Im sorry to say

Ok, so i know i am a COMPLETE geek for posting this but those of you who use computers regularly will appreciate it. Below is a video of XGL Desktop for Linux. For those of you who don't know, Linux and its various operating systems are an 100% free alternative to Windows and Apple systems and as you can see they are lightyears ahead.

Ok, i will now officially put on my thick black rimmed glasses, paisley jumper and put bryl cream in my hair.

Gay Geeks......who would have thought it.

Perhaps someone can finally get rid of George Bush. She has my vote (if i had one)!

 

29th December, 2006

Diesel is Global Warming Ready!

My Creative Review just turned up and in it where these lovely ads from Diesel. The sea levels may be rising but at least we all be dressed appropriately! LOL