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12th April, 2007

Growing bald disgracefully

My recent discovery(my being folically challanged) led me to this site.

Yes I have too much time on my hands, but this pressing matter must be resolved, afterall hair today maybe gone tomorrow. I point blank refuse to grow bald gracefully, planning to follow in the footsteps of the worlds great wig wears Trump, and Sir Elton. Now Ive mocked up what I could look like, but which one to choose?

The "Trupm/Elton" which could double up as the"Murder She Wrote"

The "Vernon Kay"

The "Ageing 70's Rocker"

The "Gay Hair Dresser"

The Will and "Grace"

The "Elvis"

 

or of course theres the "Macy Gray"

Its either this or a large family size pack of solpadine and a bottle of stoli, the choice is yours. What "grows", you decide.xx

9th April, 2007

Men Who Make-Up

 

A typical male make-up

Make-up and men - a topic of converstation thought to be reserved for homosexuals, and other undesirables. Thos who walk the street with eyeliner, blush or even concealer are often the subject of ridicule by men and women alike, those who believe that the world of cosmetics is designed and limited to women, and will only be found at camp cosmetics counters, inside women's handbags, or at a dressing table. But this is all for due reason. I mean, women have been wearing make-up since the dawn of time, and men have never indulged in such narcissim, right? Wrong.

Make-up has been around for thousands of years, from the time when early humans used mud and ocres to paint their faces for tribal and ceremonial reasons. Make-up was first used as a cosmetic aid later, during the times of the ancient Romans, Egyptians, Greeks, Babylonians and Etruscans, when eyes were lined, brows were extended, and faces were paled. This was however, performed not only by women, but by men. For as long as there has been make-up, there have been those who have criticised it (usually the catholic church), however these people do not discriminate between men or women.

During the Restoration period, extravagent fashions, hair and make-ups were at their height. Bathing however, was not in vogue, and perfumes were heavily used as a consequence. During this time, as it had been for thousdands of years, make-up was lead based. This, in combination with lack of bathing and much sexual activity, meant that sores and blisters were forming on skin, and more make-up was used to cover, allowing the poisonous lead to seep into the blood, slowly killing the wearer. Make-up for men during this period was not only acceptable, it was expected, and male make-ups were often more detailed than those of the women. By the time of Marie Antoinette, peri-wigs and fashions for both men and women were at their most luxurious, but the red cheeks, high brows, and pale skin was considerably lessened.

By the 1850s and the time of Queen Victoria, make-up was definitely out... Well, in theory anyway. Face powders, creams and ointments were being used - discreetly. All cosmetics were made at home from natural ingredients and were often vitalising for the skin. Powders were used to even out and pale off skin, while pinching cheeks and biting lips was used to get a cool pink effect. Make-up was definitely out, but for men, was still nonetheless being used.

By the time of the 20th century, make-up took a turn. It was slowly becoming less theatrical, and by the 1930s, make-up was complimentary and elegant. It had, however, disappeared for men altogether.

The 1970s saw the first real revival of make-up for men. Punk and Glam was in, and men were now putting as much effort into their make-up, as women were. Foundation, blush, higlighting and shading, even eyeshadows were common. Men who wore punk make-up often had pale skin, sharp highlighting and shading, smokey eyes, black or red lips, and often some offensive symbols painted on their faces. Glam was often a luminous foundation, with smooth highlight and shading, with soft shadows and lipstick. For the first time in centuries, it was acceptable for men to wear make-up.

The next period for make-up and men was the 1980s with personalities such as Boy George making extremely androgenous make-ups the fashion. Men and women alike were sporting similar faces, and this was acceptable. Make-up was not only for those who mimiced their favourite star. For the everyday male, make-up was still common place. Face powders and other subtle cosmetic aids were used by businessmen to make themselves more presentable at work.

Since the 80s, make-up has not been revived much for men. Emos are often seen with their clumsy smokey eyes and paled skin, and this is the only form of make-up for men that is socially "acceptable". gay men are often associated with wearing make-up, however the rise of the metrosexual has changed that.

Jean Paul Gaultier Cosmetics for MenMen are slowly starting to appreciate the benefits of cosmetics, and science supports the use of cosmetics on men, and the benefits they can have. The top layer of skin, called the epidermis, is the layer exposed to the elements - sun, wind, rain, dirt - and is the layer that shows age, wear and wrinkles. The epidermis of a man, however, is considerably thicker, meaning that men have the potential to appear younger for longer than women. This potential has never been seized upon, as correct care has never been taken of the skin. Women, who have been caring for their skin, manage to fight the signs of aging. The want to look younger for longer is not a want that soley resides with women. So the care, cleansing, toning, moisturising, and sun protection of skin is imperitive for men wanting to preserve their youth. Make-up can also be used to this effect, as it can protect the skin from sun and some elements, so it not only makes you look good, but can keep you looking good in the long run.

The use of certain cosmetics for men has lead to the design of make-up ranges marketed for men. Jean Paul Gaultier has created a line of make-ups for the new male, including lip tints, face powders, bronzers, and eyeliner (dubbed guyliner). This shows that there is a market for men purchasing make-up. While coloured eyeshadows or any other form of unntaural make-up is not in, bronzers and other natural and subtle forms of make-up is. Make-up has never been so refined or natural, and men can recognise the potential to hide that pimple, neutralise their sunburn, or create a sunkissed effect with bronzer.

So have men forgotten their cosmetics roots? Perhaps. But slowly, we are recognising the benefits of make-up for both women and men. So are fashion conscious men who make-up naturally perposterous? Some may believe so. But they definitely care about feeling and looking good, not only now, but in the future.

 

 

15th March, 2007

Personal Training Advice

 Hey all,I am planning to write a weekly blogg on heath and fitness. If anyone would like some advice or has some questions, please send me a message and I will try and help you. look forward to hearing from you. Antonio - Personal Trainer

Starting on Monday 26th February, Channel 4 will be dedicating their morning Education schedule to programming about gay issues for teens.

Progammes in Gay Week on 4 include:

My Big Gay Prom
Coming Out To The Class
Batty Man
Mum's Gone Gay
Gay to Z

Visit http://www.channel4.com/gayteens for more information and helpful advice for gay teens.

16th October, 2006

The HIV Threat

I matured sexually under the misunderstood threat of AIDS of the late 1980’s and early 1990’s. I have never known a time when sex didn’t equal death. This was the message that got stuck in my head—sex = death—and this is the message that I hear ringing as a bell toll, echoing with regret when passions had subsided, passions that muted reason and I had just made a mistake, had been unsafe. In the moments or hours following such a human slip death was on my mind. I have been unsafe many times, and have lived with that quiet gut clamping possibility that my so defined hazard might kill me. Irresponsible? Maybe, but I’m sure in your quiet gut there also lives a moment or two when you were human above responsible.

If you stop and give some thought to the impact that the HIV virus has had on our lives, it is staggering. I doubt if anyone reading this now can remember a time when there was no HIV, and if you can remember such a time then you certainly have lost some friends to it and are lucky not to have contracted it yourself.

Looking, however, at the turning tide in societal views of the HIV virus, I wonder if it is such a big deal anymore. I still have my terror, it will rest comfortable in me forever, but I’m 34. What about a young man of 19, is it such a big deal to him? I doubt it. HIV and AIDS are two things well documented and defined. They are intimately known and studied and talked about. The hate and fear of what was unknown is no longer part of our society so I wonder if those just entering their personal sexual revolution will carry the same shadow that I do. Further, the association that went along with HIV and AIDS as a gay disease and the hateful judgement from the religious right that accompanied this association has also been massively diluted. HIV and AIDS are not only known and understood, but they’re also for everyone, there’s no futher isolation that compounds the implied threat.

I suppose that no, today’s youth are not growing with the same fear as I did, and that is a good thing, but have we gone to the other and perhaps more dangerous extreme of complacency?

‘Bare-backing.’ The term itself reflects the defining character of the HIV virus on our culture illustrated in this case by colloquial vocabulary: in order to bare-back one must understand that the term means sex without a condom which implies risk which, for some, increases the excitement.

There are two dominating reasons for this:
1) it is inevitable that one will contract the virus so there is no reason to waste time and passion with precaution.
2) the disease itself these days isn’t that threatening and one can live beyond 20 years as a healthy member of society under a treatment program.

I believe the later theory is the actual defining factor of the first theory.

Has the threat really faded so far in such a short amount of time? Have the HIV and AIDS awareness programs failed?

15th September, 2006

Compromising Positions!

Most guys wouldn`t purposely set their hair on fire or hit themselves in the head repeatedly with a hammer, mainly because it`s just plain crazy to deliberately hurt yourself. But a lot of guys are doing exactly that by incorporating some potentially dangerous exercises into their workout routines. The fact is, some of the more popular gym exercises offer some of the greatest injury potential. Worse, injuries from exercises such as the upright rows don`t rear their heads immediately, but occur over time as the gradual wearing-down of muscles and tendons causes damage you may not feel for years -- until it`s pretty much too late. Because they force your body into unnatural positions, the exercises outlined here are dangerous, no matter how clean your form. So be prepared to have the harsh facts about some of your gym faves revealed. If you`re already doing these exercises, stop. But don`t worry -- we`ll offer some alternatives. So, in no particular order, here`s our exercise Hall of Shame. Whereas this popular exercise is meant to work the deltoids and trapezius, in reality it is murder on your shoulders. It is performed by holding a loaded barbell or dumbbells at your waist with a close-hand grip and pulling the weight up, leading with the elbows, to just below the chin. In this position, the arms are bent at the elbow and then internally rotated, an action not usually harmful. Add resistance, though, and every time you raise the weights, the tendons in the shoulder become impinged -- or pinched -- by bones in the shoulder joint. That`s going to hurt: Maybe not now, but somewhere down the line, tendon damage is almost a given. If you absolutely must do this exercise, bring your elbows no higher than 90 degrees to protect the shoulder capsule and rotator cuff muscles. This, of course, limits the range of motion and effectiveness. Safe alternatives for shoulder exercises include military and dumbbell presses and front dumbbell raises for the shoulders, while dumbbell shrugs will work the traps. Behind-the-neck presses and pulldowns rival the upright row for injury potential to the shoulder joint. These types of exercises put intense strain on the rotator cuff muscles -- a group of four muscles instrumental in supporting and stabilizing the shoulder joint. Burdened with a tough task, the rotator cuffs are nonetheless delicate in nature, and rotator cuff strains and tears are some of the most common weightlifting-related injuries. Behind-the-neck cable exercises force your shoulders to rotate externally, placing the rotator cuffs into a vulnerable position of instability and the entire shoulder joint into a position vulnerable to dislocation. It`s also impossible to get a straight-line movement, so you need to tilt your head forward to complete the action, leading to undue neck strain. Why risk that much injury potential when exercises such as military press, the dumbbell press and lateral raises will accomplish the same shoulder results, while exercises such as front lat and close-grip pulldowns will do the trick for building up the back?